Like everyone else on here.... we are a very private couple. We keep our lives behind closed doors shut to others. Not everyone can handle different lifestyles and curiosities. We have only had one woman and it was something that gradually happened. One night during a session we began to talk about fantasies and my wife expressed how it turns her on to imagine me with someone else.... preferably a particular person we knew. It turns out my wife was also very curious of how this person looked naked and this was her chance to find out. The woman had recently told a few people that she was bi and my wife heard. All it took was a conversation. We all had a great time and repeated this cycle for a couple of years. She's now out of our lives and we've been looking for another we could trust since then. We look forward to chatting before sharing any personal information.